Well, this originally began as a video blog, but I realized that I swear so much in it that people might have a hard time ascertaining the point.
So I have three things that I wanted to say about this subject.
Everyone was pissed around the holidays that “We can’t say Merry Christmas anymore” or “We can’t have a Christmas tree in our lobby anymore at work.” And, because we are Canadian, we would precede each complaint with, “I’m not racist or anything, but…” Then follow it with “… it really pisses me off that all these other religions and cultures come to our country and complain that we are celebrating Christmas. Why did they come to the country just to bring their own beliefs and culture with them?” Sound familiar? Well news flash, preceding something with “I’m not racist” doesn’t make it not racist. That’s like saying “I don’t like the taste of maple syrup, but I will literally put that shit on anything it tastes so good.” OK. It’s not like that at all, but you get my point.
1. QUIT BLAMING THE IMMIGRANTS
The first thing I want to say is that it I find it unlikely that this began because some non-Christians got pissed off because there was a Christmas tree in the lobby at their office. To me, this sounds like a proactive corporate or governmental idea. Or maybe someone with some common sense took a look around them one day and said… “Hey… only like half the people in this office celebrate Christmas… maybe a Christmas tree isn’t appropriate… ” But we all immediately assume that Christmas trees came down because some non-Christian immigrant lodged a complaint. Maybe in a few cases that was the case, but I think we can all concede that this was more likely a proactive approach based on respect. I know personally many of my friends who don’t celebrate Christmas couldn’t give two shits that a Christmas tree was in the lobby of their office or that a CEO signed an email saying Merry Christmas.
2. SANTA IS NOT JESUS. TRY NOT TO CONFUSE THE TWO.
Secondly I wanted to talk about the argument that “This is a Christian nation that was founded on Christian beliefs.” Well to that I say Waaahhh waaaaah. Number one: I am going to go out on a limb and say half or more than half of the “Christians” making this argument are the ones that are pissed off that their family drags them to church on Christmas morning. They are also probably the same kind of Christians who think that the church’s beliefs on gay marriage, premarital sex, birth control etc. are archaic. So don’t bust out the religion card when you’re a half assed Christian who only plays the card when it suits you. I think most of us agree that because we’re a Christian nation we all get Easter and Christmas off which is awesome, but we don’t spend those holidays in church and thanking God. We spend them opening up gifts, eating disgusting amounts of chocolate and wondering why the Easter bunny claims he hid 50 chocolates, but we can only ever find 49. Secondly, nobody is forcing you to celebrate Kwanzaa or Chanukah! I think all this “Happy Holidays” business is just a way of asking you to be respectful of others’ beliefs. And you know what? I’ll bet you already are respectful of them. You probably didn’t even need that corporate email reminding you, but you got pissed off anyway when it was sent out. That is what this all boils down to. We are being asked to be respectful and people consider an attack on their rights. Which brings me to my next point.
3. FIRST WORLD PROBLEMS
This is the thing that you’re gonna get all pissed off about and clutter up my Facebook news feed with? “I used to be able to say Merry Christmas??” There are goddamn hell ass bigger problems in the world. Like a lot bigger. You think that is a violation of rights? We have people carrying around “down with fags” signs in our country. We have a health care system that seriously needs to be addressed and a prime minister who is more interested in addressing his turtle neck collection. Then you can look outside this country and we have genocide, war, women’s rights and human rights violations, people starving to death while we walk around all abundant and shit. Those are problems. Being asked to be courteous to other religions is not a real problem. And you know what else? When I go to my local Indian Food restaurant and my local Shawarma hut, those guys aren’t celebrating Christmas but they have Christmas decorations and wish me a Merry Christmas when I leave because they are considerate that I’m a pasty white chick and that’s probably what I celebrate. So on the other side of the coin here are these other cultures being considerate of my holiday choice.
CONCLUSION
Suck it up. Stop complaining about being asked to be considerate to those who don’t celebrate Christmas. Put as much energy as you’ve put into bitching about not being able to say Merry Christmas into a real problem and maybe we could make some progress.
Sorry about the spelling errors. My spell check isn’t working and I am a lazy ho. Thanks for reading! Feel free to spread this around if you agree!